DCMASSHOLE

Wednesday, June 06, 2007

A Winter in the Summer

Last week I was on business in NYC and visited my friend. I usually arrive a day early to check into the hotel and head to his and his brothers place on upper East Side. However, this time was different because I would see his brother for the very first time since his surgery. The timing was good he arriving by subway and I by taxi meeting at the same time at his door.

We walked in and his mother yelled my name asking why I was in town. Just business I told her, but K and I will be going for a run around the park. As I walked into the living room I see the body of half a man. A million thoughts ran through my head as I looked upon a my friend's brother sitting in a chair with a blanket in the sweltering heat because he is cold. Despite being humid, he request another blanket because he was cold. When I heard that I had to turn away because a tear came to my eye and the memory of a similar request from my dying grandfather.

While C and his mom went for a walk, K and I ran around the park. He told me to take it easy as he has not been running much. I kind of figured since he was taking care of C. The conversation and what was not said revealed so much. Everyone has hope that C will survive, but all know that it is very difficult road.

As I said goodbye to everyone, I told C he better be healthy next time I come back. I know some will take that statement as callous, but you did not grow up in Mass and realize you never let up on your friends no matter what their condition. C I pray for you and your family daily.

2 Comments:

At 5:22 AM, Blogger Etienne du ClĂ© said...

Sorry about your friend...these things are horrible to have to witness but also bizarrely uplifting: to see the strength of another human's resolve.

It's a shock too when it happens to people our age; although around just about now is when we realise that we are mortal, after all

Hang in there.

 
At 10:40 PM, Blogger DCMASSHOLE said...

Red Exile,

I think it is harder for his brother, especially after his job was eliminated. However, he now can concentrate on taking care of him. We were talking as he they were both going to get their haircuts. I said that is good to get out of the house and act normally. What else was said indicated he has the fight in him, but odds are long. If anyone can overcome this disease it is him.

 

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